Friday, August 28, 2009

L.O.V.E




love..love..love..

Actually what does it means???
love is very3 subjective as it plays with our hearts n feelings...
love cannot be touched n cannot be seen..
that is why,
some says that love is blind...

And i think that is true...
Actually what are we loking for??
Is that love important in our lives and does it is part of our lives???
The answer is yes....
We should have that kind of feelings towards our family, friends and not to forget to ourself!!
But, the point is here......
Are we need somebody or someone in different gender to be loved to???
Ermmmm
when we are talking about love,
i mean love with special boyfriends or special girlfriends it sometimes do hurt our feelings soo very much...
but then,
when we are happy,
we feel like the whole world is ours....
We dont care about others as we just do whatever we want to do as long as he/she with us all the tyme.....


But, if love hurts,
why should we get involve in this matter??
When we quarrel to each other, more or less it will affect our feelings n emotions....
Thus, it will make our routines ruin sometimes up to 70%, 80%...
That is what always wondering me...
People are always worried if in their earliest 20, they do not even have a special boyfriend or girlfriend yet.....
In this case, i think we shouldn't worry about that, just set it free....
the true love will come to your heart normally and peacefully...
For those who doesn't have a special boyfriend/girlfriend yet,
please dont be rushing in choosing your soulmates as we are not going to marry them tomorrow...
Well, it is really hard to find the suitable person for us...
We have to look all the charecterictics in theirs including their family background, education background, the behaviours of themselves and so on and so forth...


So, before you guys declaring each other as a boyfriend and a girlfriend,
please make sure that you are ready to accept him/her in the way they are...
Once you start your new lives and new hopes with him/her,
it is impossible for you to ruin everything just like that...
because this kind of relationships do involve a lot of people arounds you
(if you are serious though, i'm not talking about puppy love anymore)
L.O.V.E
It really affects our emotions as we can see some of the people outside who can just easily commit suicide when they think that nobody will love them anymore....
hurrmmmm
thats what we call emotions control our mind, not our mind control the emotions....


So, for those people who are in loved with someone special, you must know your roots
and
my advice here is not to give your 100% again and again to your loved ones even if you think that he/she are really yor destiny and they do love you very3 much....
if not,
when something happens in the future,
which we dont know what would it be,
you'll be suffered very much.....

For those who are already in love with someone special....
please take good care of your relationships...
as the world now decreasing the number of good males -for girls
So, that's it.....
be careful with what are you choosing n doing..
p/s: hope you'll get what you want and you won't regret with what you have done.....









Thursday, August 27, 2009

hurmmmm.....

Well, it has been a very long tyme i'm not writing here... it seems like i already died...
but, its not.. i'm still alive, i just had a very very very hectic life........
n for that long tyme not updating this wonderful blog, i had been through sooo many things including happiness and sadness...

But, trust me, everything that happens in my life for pass 2, 3 months make me more tougher, stronger and independent than i am....

Actually there's a lot of things to be shared with...
It's about my family, my diploma graduation, him and also about my friends...

Ermmm talking about friends, it's really3 make me think deeply from the bottom of my heart...
Well, not to say that i'm not beleive in friendship,
but it is....huhuhu
Even i'm such a very hard person but i think i'm being a very good friends to all of my friends...
i just share and give what i have to them, especially those who are close with me...
but then, sumthing has turned up....
i feel like i'm just a tool for them as they can take advantage of me
(even i dont have anything to take advantage on)
Yeah, nobody will understand my situation, nobody will understand me even if i'm telling from A to Z...
But its ok, i dont want to make people sympathy for me, i just want to express my feelings as though i dont want to become a crazy girl if i just keep inside on my own...

F.R.I.E.N.D.S
yes, it is true that we have to be friends with people, but the advice here, you dont have to give 100% for your friends even if they are your besties....
i had the experienced being fool of that kind of friends and it made me really3 sick of it...
i have friends who are HYPOCRITE, LIAR, SELLFISH...
but i dont know whether these types of friends of mine could be suitable to be called friends or not...
by right i dont think they are friends of mine anymore...

So, to everyone outside there, i just wanna tell you that just be careful in choosing your friends, be careful being friends with others because we dont know in the future what will happens... maybe this time they are really good to us but in the future when they can easily live without you, they can just leave you alone just like that...
they cant even think of the simple things that you had been through together and the things that you did for them...
all your sacrifice before this will gone just like that without a word of appreciatiation...
and that time, you'll realize that you are a victim of your cruel friend....

So, Beware!!!